Drugs – Concerned a Loved One is Using?
What to do if You’re Concerned a Loved One is Using Drugs
If you are concerned a loved one is using drugs, it is difficult to know exactly what to do. The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. has put together a list of what NOT to do to aid people in dealing with this difficult situation:
- Don’t Preach: Don’t lecture, threaten, bribe, preach or moralize;
- Don’t be a Martyr: Avoid saying things that could increase feelings of guilt and the compulsion to drink or use other drugs;
- Don’t Cover Up, lie or make excuses for their behavior;
- Don’t Assume Their Responsibilities: Taking over their responsibilities protects them from the consequences of their behavior;
- Don’t Argue When Using: They cannot hold a rational conversation when under the influence;
- Don’t Feel Guilty: or responsible for their behavior, its not your fault;
- Don’t Join Them: Never feel the need to stay connected to them by drinking or using.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.